If you’re anything like me, the how-to’s on forgiveness can be as frustrating as learning to tie your shoes and can seem as impossible as playing Pin the Tail on the Donkey while standing on your head in a gale storm.

 

As the age-old conundrum goes:

 

what do you do when you’ve prayed for and blessed your offender, but still feel stuck? What happens when you’ve tried every trick in the book, clicked your heels three times, and even thrown the book at them, but still wake up each morning in the same place of How Did I get Here?